With the colder months approaching and body temperatures rising, keeping her interested this autumn season can be an exciting challenge that reaps many fulfilling rewards. Whether you are deciding to bring back the sparks with bonfire night or looking for some tips to help keep the passion alive, we know the perfect way to relight the fire this Autumn season.
“Treat them mean, keep them keen!" While this may be true in some cases, making her feel special by showering her with attention, affection and time can be a great foundation to get her hooked. Allowing her to feel special not only makes her feel comfortable and confident, it can give her a new outlook on the relationship.
Keep Things Heated
Whilst the ‘honeymoon period’ isn’t everlasting, it’s important to still make a conscious effort to keep the fire burning in your relationship. Make sparks fly this Autumn by trying new things in the bedroom – a great way to do this is introducing sex toys into the bedroom, experimenting to discover what you both like and don’t like, and taking her orgasms to the next level.
Using toys like clitoral massagers or vibrators is sure to bring pleasure to not only her, but you as well. It doesn’t just have to be the Bonfire that’s hot and fiery this November!
Do Special Things for Her
You shouldn’t have to wait for an occasion before treating your partner or showing her that you care. Instead of waiting for a birthday or anniversary, take her out to dinner, or surprise her with a candle lit bath during the long cold nights – just because. These little touches will not go unnoticed, and chances are she may even reward you in the bedroom afterwards.
Mix It Up
Just because the days have got colder, that doesn’t mean you have to stay cooped up indoors. Plan exciting activities that you can do regardless of the weather, and make the most of the temperature by huddling up closer. If you’re really wanting to spice things up, sex outdoors is a great way to do this and is guaranteed to warm you and your partner up.
Although spur of the moment sex is sometimes the most exciting, it’s important to always carry condoms for whenever the moment may strike. With Black Friday right around the corner…it’s a great time to get stocked up! You could even treat yourself to a new bottle of lube to ensure you're prepared for every eventuality.
Just because you’ve got the girl, it doesn’t mean you should stop looking after yourself. As soon as you stop grooming and making an effort with your appearance, this tells a woman that you are taking her for granted. Rather than becoming complacent, make sure to dress smart and smell great.
This not only shows that you take great care in your appearance but lets her know how lucky she is. With all these tips in mind, you're well on your way to have a spicy Autumn that reaps rewards for both you and your lover.