Top Ways To Feel Sexier Before Your Big Date

Top Ways To Feel Sexier Before Your Big Date

Although exciting, going on a date can be an apprehensive experience, no matter how confident you are, or how many dates you have already been on. If the date is particularly special, for instance if you like the person, or feel like this might be THE night where things get more intimate, then it can be even more nerve-racking. To ensure that you feel calm and sexy on your big night, here are four top tips to get you date-ready… 

Have a workout

Exercise is proven to release endorphins and help you feel happy and energized. Therefore, partaking in some form of exercise before a date can give you a real boost. Opt for something reasonably light, rather than a real power session that will leave you exhausted and ready for bed. Swimming, jogging, yoga, or a Pilates session are all good options that will stimulate your muscles, tone your body, and make you feel more confident about getting naked, should the opportunity arise.
Top Ways To Feel Sexier Before Your Big Date

Increase your general knowledge.

Feeling sexy is not always just about looking good on the outside. If you feel up-to-date about current world affairs and have a view on hot topics of conversation, then this will give your internal confidence a big boost too, and ensure you feel ready for any question that might come your way on the date. You don’t have to spend days swatting up on the history of England or struggling to understand the politics of a foreign nation – this is a date, not an interview, after all – however, a few key newsworthy snippets and insightful personal opinions might go a long way to impress your date and leave them lusting after your intelligent mind. 

Relax 

Easier said than done – staying calm and composed in the run up to your date can be tricky, especially when hormones are racing, and preening and preparation is underway. Try to take a few minutes of quiet before the date to practice some deep breathing or mindfulness. Affirming some positive mantras in your head can help to give you internal assurance, and ease any tensions away. Phrases such as ‘I am sexy and intelligent’ or ‘I feel confident and ready’ can be great verses to use, so try repeating these quietly inside your head either at home, on the bus, or whilst waiting for your date to arrive. 

Pamper Yourself

Once your inside is feeling good, it’s time to work on the outside. As this is a big occasion, which could lead to a potential long-lasting relationship, allow yourself full permission to indulge yourself for a top-to-toe pamper session. Waxing, mani/pedi, skin exfoliating, bronzing and blow drying your hair can all help you to feel at your sexiest and ready for whatever the date throws at you. Scent is also important, so use fragrant body moisturisers, oils and perfumes that leave a trace of your sexy presence even when you leave the room. Just make sure you don’t wear anything overpowering that will leave your date choking from across the table! 

To ensure that you are well prepared for any date, always remember to slip a packet of condoms and some lube into your handbag or jacket pocket. This will ensure you are never caught short if things get passionate and steamy!

Easier said than done – staying calm and composed in the run up to your date can be tricky, especially when hormones are racing, and preening and preparation is underway.