How do you use a condom?

First things first: Condoms (aka external or male condoms) are your go-to accessory when it comes to preventing pregnancy and protecting against STIs. Use them for vaginal, anal, or oral sex—and yes, even on sex toys too.

How to Use a Condom (Without the Awkward Fumble)  

Before you get started: 

• Check the date! Expired condoms are risky business.
• Stick to modern latex and non-latex materials and avoid the ancient animal skin ones.
• Oil and latex don’t mix—so skip the lotions and use water-based or silicone lube to make your experience even more pleasurable. Some condoms can only be used with silicone lubes, so always check the condom and lube compatibility on pack before use. Apply lube to the outside of the condom once it’s on and feel free to top up your lube during your playtime.

Putting it on like a pro:

1. Gently tear open the wrapper—no teeth or scissors, please. You're not opening chips.
2. Wait until the penis is hard (yep, timing matters).
3. Make sure the condom is the right way round - it should look like a little hat with the roll on the outside. Place the rolled side on the head. (It’s easy with a Durex condom, because the logo is printed on the foil showing you the bottom side of the condom).
4. Pinch the tip to remove air and leave room for the little swimmers.
5. Still holding the tip, roll it all the way down to the base. One smooth move. If it doesn’t roll down, it may be the wrong way round – throw it away and use a new condom.

A good condom fit should feel secure but comfy—like a good hug, not a wrestling match.

When the fun’s done:

• Hold the base as you pull out (no one wants a disappearing act) and once you’re safely out, pull the condom off gently.
• Wrap it up and toss it in the bin, not the toilet. Toilets get blocked and that’s no fun!

Condom Do’s (Be a Pro): 

• Read the package, because knowledge is power.
• Use pre-lubed condoms or add lube to up the pleasure and comfort.
• Store condoms somewhere cool and dry and remember to replace them before you run out
• Explore! Condoms come in different shapes, sizes, and flavours. Find what feels good for both of you.

Condom Don’ts (Avoid the Mood Kill):

• Don’t double up—two condoms are not better than one.
• Skip the animal skin condoms if STI protection is a must.
• Don’t store them somewhere hot - not your hot car or back pocket for months.
• Never reuse a condom (ever).
• Toss any that are expired, torn, or crusty. Gross.

Oops! Common Mistakes to Dodge

• Putting it on after sex has already started (too late to prevent STIs or pregnancy!).
• Taking it off before the action’s really over or before full withdrawal.
• Forgetting to pinch the tip or not leaving room.
• Putting it on inside out, flipping it, then using it (contamination alert).
• Rolling it on halfway or tearing it with nails or jewellery.
• Using oil-based lubes that can damage the condom.
• Not holding the base during withdrawal (aka the slip 'n slide).

Common Condom Problems (And Easy Fixes)  

• It breaks, slips, or leaks?
  Stop, pull out carefully, and grab a new one. It’s also a good idea to get advice from a GP or family planning services about your options as soon as possible, including emergency contraception if you’re trying to avoid pregnancy.
• Feels weird or doesn’t fit right?
  Try different sizes, textures, or brands—your perfect match is out there.
• Losing your vibe putting it on?
  Two tips: 
1. Fit matters—explore different condoms until you find one that feels just right. 
2. Stay cool and confident—know what you're doing, relax, and focus on fun.