Sometimes the build-up to sex can be just as, or even more enjoyable than the act of sex itself. From the passion, suspense and anticipation of what’s to come, foreplay can be both exciting and exhilarating for all involved.
Looking to up your foreplay game? Whether you’re a novice or a seasoned pro, here are 7 tips to take foreplay for him to a whole new level:
1. Start with a head massage
When your partner has had a long day at work, offer him some stress relief in the form of a sensual head massage. The scalp is home to many sexual stimulation spots, so let your hands gently caress his with slow circular movements to really get him in the mood.
Once you are done with the scalp, sensually work your way towards the neck and shoulder area until you reach the trouser department, which is where the fun really begins…
2. The thigh rub
During your dinner date or night at the movies, use your hand to gently stroke his thigh with slow, firm movements up towards his groin. Feel his erection grow and leave him longing for the bill to arrive or for the film to finish so that he can whisk you home and into the bedroom.
3. Undress him with your eyes
During sex, eye contact can be very erotic whilst adding a sense of intimacy to the moment. Similarly, during foreplay, you can use the same technique to help whip your partner into a frenzy.
Move your hands down to your partner’s penis and try holding his gaze as you stimulate him. If things progress to oral sex, keep your eyes glued to his as you treat him and watch his enjoyment grow as he gets closer to climax.
4. Drive him crazy with a striptease
The sight of a woman, scantily clad and moving around provocatively is bound to drive any guy wild, even more so if it’s the woman he loves. The first step is to make sure you’ve selected your sexiest lingerie from the drawer. Make sure to wear something easy to remove so that, when the time is right to take things to the bedroom, you know you’re fully prepared.
Once you’ve chosen your sexiest outfit, put on some sensual music with a strong baseline and let your striptease routine commence. Remember to close the curtains to ensure it’s for his eyes only.
5. Touch yourself
Not one for the timid, self-masturbation in front of your partner can seem a little daunting. However, it doesn’t have to be. Turn the lights down low, strip down to your underwear and start slowly caressing your breasts whilst passionately kissing your partner. This alone should be enough to bring on his erection.
If you want to take things further, take your hand down in between your legs and get to work in right in front of him. When touching yourself, be sure to have Durex Intense Orgasmic Gel at hand. Let your partner use this mighty little gel on you by rubbing it onto your clitoris. It can help you to have an orgasm to remember.
6. Lick his lobes
This is a little trick to try out during a passionate kiss. Starting at his lips, move your way around to his cheek and then over to his left ear. Blow lightly on his lobes before nibbling, sucking or licking them gently to increase the stimulation. Gently move your way back to his lips and then make your way to the opposite ear.
The ear lobes have hundreds of nerve endings and are considered by some as an erogenous zone, so this flirty trick is near guaranteed to give him a thrill. Due to the ear’s sensitivity, increase your partner’s pleasure by being as slow and as gentle as possible. This ear-kissing session will certainly drive him crazy.
7. Talk dirty
Following on from the above, talking dirty to your partner can turn him on even more. Whilst teasing his earlobes, take the opportunity to whisper some naughtiness into his ear to really drive him crazy. Fear not, what you whisper doesn’t have to be rude or obscene.
By simply telling him that you want him now, or that you can’t wait to get him home, you’ll leave him firmly in the mood and wanting more. Including sex talk can really heighten sexual tension during initial foreplay which may even intensify the pleasure when you actually get down to sex.
Are you a bit of a newbie when it comes to dirty talk? Why not check out our top tips for how to talk dirty in our Ultimate Sex Talk Guide. Or maybe you want to learn more about all things sex? Head over to our Explore Sex blog now.