The Best Sex Positions To Slow Down Premature Ejaculation

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Finding sex positions to help you and your partner last longer can seem a bit daunting at first. With a bit of foreplay and stimulation, these exciting sex positions can help develop a new approach to intimacy with your partner, while slowing down premature ejaculation. For a longer, lasting experience in the bedroom that the both of you will enjoy, here are the best sex positions to help slow things down.

Spooning

Tired of the same missionary position? This position ensures that you and your partner will keep going, long after the candles have burned out. Have your partner lay on her side, as you lay down behind her facing the same direction as you enter her. Not only does this position allow you to take things slower, it gives you access to touch and caress your partner while maintaining a rhythm that is sure to please both of you.

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Woman on Top (Cowgirl)

Slow and steady wins the race and this position is sure to make you and your partner both feel like winners. Begin by lying down on the bed as your partner climbs on top of you. Once penetrated, have her rock up and down or back and forth. Not only does this position keep the woman in control of her pace, pressure, and depth it allows you to focus on responding to her stimulation rather than your thrusting.

Cross-legged Sit Down

For a truly intense and relaxing feeling, lay on your back and cross your legs in a yoga position as your partner sits on top and wraps her legs around your back for support. This can prevent premature ejaculation by maintaining the majority of the stimulation along the top of the penis, making it easier for both you and your partner to change the intensity and speed. 

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Not only will this decrease your urge to climax, one of the biggest advantages of this position is the variety of pleasure you and your partner can provide one another. Begin by laying down on your back as your partner climbs on top of you with her back facing you. Whether you decide to stick with using your fingers or want to spice things up with a flavoured lube or a sex toy like a vibrator, this position is sure to give you both the control you desire.

Side to Side

Take a break from the classic sex positions and reconnect with your loved one in this close and intimate position. Start off by laying on your side as you and your partner face each other. Your pelvis should be much lower than hers as she lifts her top leg to wrap around your waist.

Like spooning, this position requires a bit of manoeuvring for penetration. Once you're fully joined together, have fun exploring ways that you and your partner can stimulate each other. Not only is this a great shallow penetration position, it doesn’t allow for much thrusting which can aid in reducing premature ejaculation.

Chair Seat

Find a sturdy chair or sofa that will allow you and your partner to be comfortable. Have your partner face away from you as she lowers herself onto your lap. Use your arms to help navigate her down as she slowly moves up and down. Have fun varying the speed between you and your partner for an irresistible sensation that is sure to slow you down but speed her up.

Slow and steady wins the race and this position is sure to make you and your partner both feel like winners.

With these creative sex positions, you're sure to slow him right down for a long and pleasurable night-in. Enjoy!