Finding sex positions to help you and your partner last longer can seem a bit daunting at first. With a bit of foreplay and the right stimulation, our 6 exciting sex positions can help develop a new approach to intimacy with your partner, while slowing down premature ejaculation at the same time.

Before you get started, it’s important to create an environment that is as safe and pleasurable as possible. Using condoms will help you to feel both relaxed, ultimately making your experience more enjoyable.

Lube should also be a consideration. The Durex collection of lubes are all designed to be gentle on the human body but with the ability to create a truly exciting experience and that’s so important when trying out some creative sex positions.

Once you have condoms and lubes sorted, for a longer-lasting experience in the bedroom that the both of you will enjoy, here are 6 sex positions to help slow things down:

  1. Spooning
  2. On Top
  3. Cross-legged Sit Down
  4. 69
  5. Side To Side
  6. Chair Seat

1. Spooning

This position requires you to both lay on your side, facing the same direction. With your partner behind you, allow them to penetrate you gently and enjoy slow rocking motions and grinding as your bodies merge together.

As this position only involves shallow penetration, your partner may last much longer, as they won’t be overstimulated, while the slower motions can feel great for both of you.

2. On Top

If you want to be in ultimate control, then it’s time to get on top! This position allows for deep penetration and a sexy viewpoint for both parties! When on top, you’re the one in the driving seat so you can determine how fast things move along.

This should allow both you and your lover to enjoy the intimacy of sex without it ending in an explosion of pleasure earlier than you would like. Getting creative under the covers not only enhances the pleasure, but ensures you are both enjoying it as you should.

3. Cross-legged Sit Down

The cross-legged position is another great position for slowing premature ejaculation. This sitting position involves your partner sitting cross-legged with you straddling on top. Wrap your legs around your partner’s back and link your arms round their neck to enhance the feelings of control and intimacy before enjoying gentle rocking motions.

This position is good for a long session because it is slow, full of passion, and offers the chance for deep satisfying penetration without the risk of overly excited thrusting that could lead to early climax.

4. 69

Not only will this decrease your urge to climax, one of the biggest advantages of this position is the variety of pleasure you and your partner can provide one another.

Whether you decide to stick with oral, or you want to spice things up with a flavoured lube or a sex toy like a vibrator or cock ring, this position is sure to give you both the control you desire.

5. Side to Side

Take a break from the classic sex positions and reconnect with your loved one in this close and intimate position. Start off by laying on your side as you and your partner face each other.

Like spooning, this position requires a bit of manoeuvring for penetration. Once you're fully joined together, have fun exploring ways that you and your partner can stimulate each other. Not only is this a great shallow penetration position, but it also doesn’t allow for much thrusting which can aid in reducing premature ejaculation.

6. Chair Seat

Sex on a chair is a great way to ensure you have control over your partner. Have them sit on the chair, with their bum shuffled forward. As you squat over them and the chair seat, allow them to slowly enter you.

This position should allow you to control how deep they penetrate. Experiment with different depths of penetration to find out which best helps prevent premature ejaculation.

 

With these creative sex positions, you're sure to slow him right down for a long and pleasurable night-in. Got more questions when it comes to sex? Head over to our Explore Sex blog now.

 

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