The Full Nelson Position

The Full Nelson Position
Full nelson position

How it works

The Full Nelson starts with a twist on Reverse Cowgirl. The rider leans back and lifts their legs into a wide V, while the partner underneath wraps their arms around those legs, holding them back with their elbows and locking their hands behind the top partner’s neck. It’s acrobatic, intense, and definitely takes things up a level.

Skill Factor 

This one’s not for the faint hearted or the inflexible. The Full Nelson takes trust, communication, and caution. It’s high-risk, high-reward and best kept brief, as it can get uncomfortable quickly. If you’re up for the challenge, make sure you know the risks and always prioritise safety (and breathing!). Just remember: Full Nelson is all about exploration, not endurance, so take it slow, stay safe, and have fun with it. 

Pleasure Rating 

The Full Nelson brings serious novelty and new sensations to the table, which can be great for breaking out of a bedroom rut. It can deepen connection, boost intimacy, and fire up fresh excitement. 

Bonus Benefits 

More commonly used as penis-in-vagina, this position is however flexible (literally) enough for anal or strap-on play too. Add in toys like penis rings or butt plugs to up the intensity.  

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